Forget Me Not
In: 31 days of October, A Quiet Spirit, Celebrating Our Little One
To my child & grand children in heaven,
I can’t wait to see you and I am so thankful for the chance to hold our precious Kyle!
Love Susan (Kim’s mom)
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Kim,
I cherish that Kyle is a part of my life. God has blessed me in so many ways just by your path and my path crossing. I am forever thankful to know Baby Kyle, you, and your wonderful family.
Love you!
Jen
(The ultrasound nurse who performed all 20 or so ultrasounds – and gave us some of the best photos I’ve ever seen a tech pull off. And hundreds of hours of video footage to cherish forever.)
To those whose mothers were grieving so hard they couldn’t muster the strength to say what they wanted here:
You are loved. Every single day.
To Sam. And Catherine. And to my precious Kyle, whose birth time stands still on this clock. As my entire world stood still that cold day in December.
You are loved by your sisters here, your dad, and me. I can’t count the days until I see you again. But I can make the days until that day of our meeting count. I love you. I always will.
Love, Mom
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I remember.
– a sweet mother, aunt, and friend in South Carolina
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There simply aren’t enough candles……I’m remembering Baby Kyle and you and so many other babies and their parents and families. I have been blessed by so many and I am forever thankful.
♡ Jen
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The 6 candles we lit tonight are in memory of the four waiting for us, plus the two God has blessed us with here; our precious boys, Caleb and Josiah.
“Miss you everyday
Miss you in every way
But we know there’s a day when we will hold you
We will hold you
You’ll kiss our tears away
When we’re home to stay
Can’t wait for the day when we will see you
We will see you
But, baby, let sweet Jesus hold you til mom and dad can hold you….
You’ll just have Heaven before we do
You’ll just have Heaven before we do”
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This is for my son – Nate
Choosing Joy,
Penny
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To my sweet baby,
On June 13th, we said goodbye to you at only 11 weeks. It is difficult not being able to see you grow into a beautiful child but we know it was part of God’s plan. We love you!
– Mommy, Daddy, and big brother in California
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To our precious babies,
January 24, 2014… our lives were changed forever as you left this earth to meet Jesus. We love you so much little one & miss you every day. We know your great-grandparents are loving having you in heaven… we will see you soon.
July 9, 2014… Little one, we so longed to hold you in our arms. We prayed for you, asking God to sustain your life, but He had different plans. We know you’re enjoying heaven with your big sister. We love you so much & can’t wait to hold you in our arms one day… until then rest in the arms of Jesus.
Love,
Mommy & Daddy in Missouri
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I didn’t get to see the first two babies I lost, but I did get to see my third, a week before I lost him (do not know the gender for sure, I just *felt* he would have been a “he”), in a moment of grief I decided not to keep those ultrasound pictures, a decision I regret now. But a friend made me this and I always keep my angel babies close to my heart!
– a beautiful mother not too far away
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For my nieces and/or nephews that I will only meet in heaven.
– Janna in South Carolina
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April 3, 2014
“You are my first baby. The one I waited 3 years for. I knew you were with me for 8 hours. I went to sleep with my hands holding you, and your daddy gave you kiss. Although we lost you that following morning, I will never ever ever forget how much joy I had for those precious few hours knowing that you were the first person to give me the title, ‘mom’.”
Today we will light a candle for our Grayson Paul and our precious little one we never got to meet – but whom Dalton calls Landon. (That’s one of the names we had picked and Dalton suggested that’s what we should name our little bean.)
All I ever wanted to be was a wife and a mommy. I am so very thankful for our three beautiful babies God has blessed us with to take care of on this earth. It’s been 8 years since we held Grayson in our arms but I think of him every day, several times a day. He’s never far from my mind.Sometimes, I will look at all three of the kids doing something sweet together and I immediately think of him. What would he have been like? Would he have been a lot like Dalton? But then I remember God has a plan. I know Grayson & Landon are being well taken care of. And I know they aren’t alone. They have so many little friends there, even a few cousins, and some amazing grandparents.
To my friends who have experienced this kind of loss, I’m sorry you, too, have had to go through losing a child. I’m praying for you today and sending extra hugs. It is a loss that no one else completely understands unless they have been through it.
Know that you are not alone.
4 comments
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Melissa Boles
October 16, 2014 at 7:51 pm
This is so beautiful. I’ve had friends who have lost children early in pregnancies or just after birth, and I love that this post is honoring so many of those children who were called to Heaven sooner than we would like. Thank you for having this space.
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Julie Kieras (@happystronghome)
October 16, 2014 at 10:22 pm
I had an ectopic pregnancy loss earlier this year, and I still wonder about “what if” and think “I’d be 8 months right now” …it’s hard but praying for peace and direction as we continue trying to conceive.
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rebekahnyakairu
October 16, 2014 at 7:02 pm
What a beautiful post! So meaningful.
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